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It fails.

What else do you think happens when you’re not ready to be in a relationship but you think you should or have to be in one already?

 
However much you’d want it to be a success it will fail, and fast. Why? Because you will have issues with being in a relationship. You will feel restricted. You will feel forced into something you don’t really want even though some part of you wants to be in a relationship. However great that person is, it will still fail.

You will hurt that person and that person will hurt you. It may be unintentional or intentional, it doesn’t really matter. As long as you’re not ready it will fail.

So how will you know when you’re ready?

It’s when you’ve fixed all there is to fix in your life, when you’ve done all the “cleaning” and introspection you need and when you finally know who you are and what you are. When you’ve faced everything you don’t want to face and accepted them as truth, only then will you be able to be ready.

Sadly, for some, it never happens.

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