Reasons why people hate you:
1. They can’t be you.
2. They envy something/anything about you.
3. They can’t get/have what you get/have.
4. They think your life is better than theirs.
5. They can’t do what you do even if they try.
6. They can’t make you do what they want you to do.
7. They aren’t noticed as much as you do.
8. You have what they can never have.
9. You’re better than them.
It might be that you’re in a better place/situation in life than they are. Or you look awesome even if it seems you’re not doing much. Or you usually come out better than the rest even if you don’t want to.
10. You don’t notice them or pay attention to them without meaning to.
11. They feel undervalued even if they shouldn’t.
12. You hurt their feelings.
It doesn’t matter if you did it intentionally or not, they will still hate you anyway.
13. They don’t understand you.
It may be that they’re afraid of you or simply idolize you or maybe even love you a certain way but since it’s not reciprocated the way they want it, it turns into something else entirely. That’s why they ruin you, irritate you or do all the nasty stuff to you. It’s either that or they think you’re pathetic. Either way hate is still kind of a strong word.
People hating on you isn’t something to be proud of. You don’t boast how much someone hates you just because you’re who you are. But of course that might be a defense mechanism.
So what have we learned from this list then? Should you change yourself for them to please them? Nothing can really please people nowadays aside from making them feel good.
Hate is a strong enough word. It is unpleasant. It is uncomfortable. It makes you wanna kill someone.
Why would you wanna hate someone? Is it because you feel insignificant? Stupid? Unloved? Wronged?
What exactly is your problem that it made you hate someone? Is it because you got hurt? Why did it hurt?
You do know that nobody’s perfect right? But everyone strives to be perfect to the detriment of others, which shouldn’t be the case. Heck i don’t even care about my grammar, using a foreign language is enough as long as i get the point across and am understood.
So what can i say about this?
Well why don’t we all start doing what is right instead of hating people and putting them down just because we hate them. After all if it weren’t for them, you wouldn’t be where you are now. You may be bitter and still seek revenge but revenge is empty, as we have all witnessed in movies, TV shows, anime and the like. It only feels good at the beginning but then it makes you feel more rotten inside without you even noticing it.
Doing the right thing might be hard but it’s better. Use your hatred to make life better for you and everyone else without deliberately stepping on other people. You’re just going to make things worse than it is. Learn from your pain. Use your pain and the hate that results from it to learn about who you are and how people react to you and turn things into something positive. Hate and pain will consume you if you let it, so don’t let it keep you from having a happy and positive life.
Pray. Laugh. Love. Live.
Enjoy life to the fullest and make the world a much better place for everyone. =)
